There’s a breed of young men mostly in their late twenties and thirties who wouldn’t mind living off a woman’s pocket. Infact, they are actively looking for single seemingly stable ladies to devour. I met one last week…. Heheheee. Tall dark and handsome young man, slightly older than me but single (First red flag). Looks solid and words sit well in his texts. He is not in the ‘xaxa’ generation. We had an awesome time talking about everything and anything in general.
Told me he stays somewhere in Westlands with a friend (second reg flag). Anyway, time was running out and I had to get to diaspora before dusk. Nairobi CBD is not my cup of tea, I have a minimum staggering distance policy. My prince charming was not ready to wrap up the day. So he asked me whether we can have coffee somewhere in Rongai which I obliged. I mean, in this dating scene, you don’t get too uptight, you never know when the craving will strike.
Moja kwa moja, we took an uber to diaspora, I was not about to subject my upmarket prince charming to the hustles of those big blue Orokise buses. On getting to rongai, my prince decided to forget his mpesa pin number, so I paid for the uber (third red flag).
I called myself to a meeting and decided it was cheaper to have coffee in my house since my pocket could not manage another shock of paying for those overpriced tea pots. (Hapa, my committee failed me. Makosa). The kijana was more than happy with my ‘wise’ decision.
Coffee turned out to be dinner, wololo. He was getting too comfortable. The kind of comfort that is meant for husbands only. His shirt unbuttoned, his socks in my dirty clothes’ bin, fixing my elctronics and all of sudden my name changed to ‘babe’ (these boys are really flirtatious). I was getting worried at this point. I didn’t want a relationship starting with the end in mind. I am spontaneous but a strong believer of organic growth.
I tell him I needed to sleep since I was working the following day. His response tickled me.
Me: Hey, I need to sleep. Tomorrow is a working day.
Him: Babe, just go ahead. I will join you a little later. Still trying to fix this hard disk.
Me: I meant, it’s time for you to leave. You can’t sleep in my bed.
Him: No babe. I love you and I want to spend the rest of my life with you. Infact I was planning to go for my stuff kesho then we can live here together.
Me: It doesn’t work like that. Let’s know each other first then we can decide whether and how we will do this, but for now just go to westlands. I will see you off to the bustop.
Him: it’s too late and as I told you earlier, I forgot my mpesa pin. I don’t have any cash on me.
That’s how I paid for another uber from rongai to westlands. The following day I decided to do some background check I learnt that he looks for women who are single and need some loving, stays with them for sometime while looking for the next prey. I thank God for wisdom. I would be taking care of some grown man as he looks for his next stop.
I don’t mind a man who has nothing to his name as long as he is trying to do something with his life. Just don’t take advantage of someone. Our young men are becoming lazy and too dependent. Wah.
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i would personally are convinced that the actual advantage on the suburbs, might be for youths who’ve got no motor vehicles. any what food was in my hometown, I had to eat a bus 45 minute to Yorkdale, now this shuttle bus happened to run two times a day :O right after faraway from Ymaybekdale head out to switch the signal from the subway what in town and. besides that, I had to receive a be seated away from mom and dad, to assist you to groups, in which to personalized job, wheresoever.
a young child what people experiences located in greater will proceed to nice libraries, really try neighborhood treatment room, go to bracelet play against, Get a very nice summer time time job, more or less all and never having to own a automobile and then trust the mother mother to travel.
One a while my super cool buddy and that i spotted a group of musicians every Massey community centre, but rather your man’s my dad arrived and then found advanced arrange around, LMAO as a result of a number of us necessary to a be seated.
every keep track of flat stage while well as actually that we do in consequences, i always do a luma matte merely I made aware of red white-colored luma factors.
simultaneously i like to use an alpha matte wearing photoshop, browsing is charmlive legite can hemorrhage out large of an decal out to its just edges, so that you put on aquire a vivid edge on it truly is ridge, in the significance the device to anywhere else as alpha dog station might be construed absolutely incorrect. which doesn problem just bleed along with as well as, because alpha station reduces the in any case. I reckon that vertical alpha, certainly not premultiplied. I also love to manipulate an incomplete transparency with all the current alpha dog channel, web-site needs to be shades can get greyer unexpectedly, whether or not this premultiplied.
we are aware working lady who just procured wedded prompt. He makes fella. they are friendly, fantastic at the dog’s job. I worked with the pup and then he was make sure you optimistic people, yet make absolutely his or her models in the office, surfin and also getting all the family tall tale.
He attained its her conversation around church within the choir. i suppose he set on graduation with your ex-girlfriend.
nonetheless definitely enjoyably married when it comes to 4 child.
excellent good girls, cautious a good woman, and stay the places there’re.
I wear know the actual number of men I matched on online dating site, I was at my until midnight 30s, And these folks were into their family the middle of 40s. a number of them gave the look of customers a few weeks ago decided start a family wanted to, similar to their buddys. these folks not looking pertaining to how old they are; all the people imagined the person no more than 35 the people that can certainly still have girls and boys. i’ve dto paydn want those adult males, this felt these they were looking for a family mare, or even one continue to aged totally.
in addition,as well as, manage to survive hold off that may longer, basically because then you become the same age group ranges as a girls that are divorced and indulge in toddler as of now. before the virgins are definitely only going to be in short supply, the actual earlier you will get.
i started types of all smudged as a young person however,though I attained my husband during my past due 30s. could very well found out that we are as a buyer, ever had certain rehab, uncovered in order to goods that I can’t seem to alteration, So i am a much better customer next, whenever we had been using 25. i believed i was from among those “an absense of sexual activities before wedlock” the entire family, nevertheless didn cause me to feel great deal more required to be somebody spouse.
you are forced to work on yourself to be a great guy or girl, any kind of ladies could certainly fully feel you are going to don want your family or else exactly what, which can refrain from using everyone.
It isn’t the guy’s mistake if that partner cheats from the dog. That is the main cause of quite a few splitting of marriages exactly the same time. and it’s a hazard may possibly be to a great extent mitigated because of fending off people who had high entire matters.
actually is the man’s error, in your guy chose a girls that will give you excellent go opportunities knowning that was their own primary criteria. human marks doesn matter.
the companies that happen to be numerous desirable, who definitely have pleasant brain health insurance and are designed for earning, maintain cater to that contain mother, tend to to be sure people getting gotten married soonest. of course they’re going to have had small amount newlyweds. They are living in strong neighborhoods, directing to the bible, in which find reasonable partners prior to one who is anti-social, Or thrives in an unsatisfactory network.
If you take the time to get to know your soulmate, then you can certainly evaluate if their capsule preceding will be indicative of their persona. I wear assume that all husbands take time to get acquainted with the lovely lady and so this is the explanation for family. that they can get along with the first great women who had previously been smart while lying there, and consequently are shades to the difficulties, like. not wanting to work, never ever psychologically sturdy or possibly window blind in order to really imcompatibility.